Family Therapy

Two weekends in a row we've gotten to be with some of our family in Illinois and I am thankful for that. Yes, our family is big. Yes, our family is quite crazy. And YES, our family is also quite amazing. Getting to share life together is what makes us who we are. I love the times we get to laugh together. Laughter is indeed..good medicine. As you know, I was hoping for some sort of peace or understanding to come from our visit this last weekend. I'm still not sure if I received that, but what I did receive is this...it will all be okay. We need to understand that we have very little control over the events or story that plays out in our life. Sure, we can make decisions, good and bad, and there will be consequences. But none of us are promised tomorrow. We can make plans for a summer trip, but that doesn't mean we'll all be here to enjoy it. Life is funny this way and we forget just how precious it really is.
I feel the very same way about my family and close friends. As much as I never want to lose any of them, it's totally out of my control. I've been blessed first of all with great parents; then some great siblings and their spouses, great wife and kids, and great neices and nephews. Not to mention so many super friends who have touched our lives in one way or another. But for me, there's nothing like some good ole family therapy. I'm not talking about lining everyone up on the couch with a counselor telling us what we're doing right and wrong. I'm talking about the kind of therapy that happens over a cup of coffee, out around the fire pit, or on the back patio enjoying a good cigar. Spending time with my family is healthy for me, physically and mentally. We spend a lot of time laughing about the craziest things; sweet potatoes, Pujols, "brothers get cancer too", aluminum can stashes. I've come to the conclusion that I not only want these Family Therapy sessions, I need them. I need them for a number of reasons, some selfish I suppose, but again, I'm okay with that. These times with my family bring me much joy. Although we've had our share of crying moments, I really prefer to laugh. Even laughing at myself and some of the really goofy things that come into my mind. But for me, the mental health that comes from being with those that I love dearly and laughing at whatever, is a huge boost. Especially this past year. So, if you're in need of some serious therapy, if life has you down and you need a lift, get together with some of your favorite family or friends. Let your guard down and share your heart with them. Love, laugh and live like there is no tomorrow, because the reality is, there's no guarantee! That's the view from my stand!